Into one point ... we realise that even those closest persons to our souls ... can't bring us anything good .... So ... smiling .... we start practice detachment ... in its absolute form  … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Into one point ... we realise that even those closest persons to our souls ... can't bring us anything good .... So ... smiling .... we start practice detachment ... in its absolute form  … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

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He loved her.

Loved her ... for real.

... from the first day he met her.

Unfortunately ... she had a much too weird behaviour, not really knowing how to act into a love story.

Especially with a man ... which she was claiming that she loves ... a lot.

For reasons .... difficult to be understood ... she was making him jealous ... all the time.

... flirting with other men.

Behind his back ... or even in front of his eyes.

Most probably ... having the real purpose ... to drive him crazy.

Many ... would say ... it was all a nonsense.

Others would say ... that she was simply ... an easy

 

woman ... who couldn't stop herself connecting to any man from the stage of her life.

.... adoring to be adored.

But ... into one point ... after 1 million crisis of jealousy ... i saw him changed.

Detached

Much calmer.

Unfortunately ... i couldn't see anymore that joy into his eyes ... while he was into her company.

That passion for her ... disappeared.

The moment ... when that crazy obsession was deleted from his soul ... the passion automatically disappeared.

So .... one day ... I've asked him ... "What the hell happened?! All looked like a hollywoodian love story ... but now ..."

He looks at me ... and replies ... "Unfortunately ... statistically speaking ... she made so, so many stupid things ... that i don't expect anything good from her anymore.

I ... simply ... know that she will do again .... another and another ridiculous things.

And ... i'll just have to digest all that ... just to allow as the story ... to continue.

Today ... i understand that without detachment ... i'll just drive crazy.

So much ... that i will need special treatment into a mental health hospital."

I couldn't believe ... what he was saying ... but most certainly the disappointment of so, so many ugly episodes ... induced by her stupid desire of making him jealous ... took

 

them into the situation from today.

It was .... ridiculous.

A total nonsense .... but a real case scenario ... repeated on and on and on.

... almost every day.

Today ... his obsession for her .... became detachment.

... but that changed the dynamic of the whole story.

Cause ... you see ... love without passion and obsession is not anymore ... the same thing.

But ... somehow ... i was agreeing with the guy.

He most probably entered into a state of ... auto protection .... understanding that this woman will ruin him emotionally ... so badly ... that he'll end up being patient for the rest of his life ... into a mental health hospital.

Yes ... unfortunately .... things like these just happen ... and the only real solution is to be ... detached.

Especially ... when your soul is not allowing you to leave the story.

And still ... love without passion and obsession is ... almost pathetic.

... a useless experience.

 

 

 

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